Going the Distance

Distance relationship..... Is it easy ?? Can it last ??

Just watch the movie 'Going the Distance' recently, it cute to see them traveling to and fro to meet each other and how they appreciate the time together so much. When you only get to see your partner like 3 month once, I'm sure you'd like the moment to last as long as possible. But then, after some time, it proves that distance does play its role in a relationship. Eventually, they got tired of having a partner whom you cant be with all the time. For most couples, that's actually quite true. How many couple can actually withstand the challenge of time and distance ????

However, in the end, somehow the guy landed a job nearby the the girl's place. So they were able to rekindle their relation...

But honestly, how many couple which broke up can actually have this happy ending ??

Ive read a few tips on how to maintain distance relationship. Here's a few :
1. be honest with each other. for whatever that each party feels, he/she should share it with the other
2. trust and believe. being apart, one tends to think that the other partner may betray him/her. hence, trust that the partner will always e faithful to you.
3. Whenever you get the chance to meet up, appreciate the time, enjoy each others' company and try your best not to argue.
4. take a lot a lot of pictures so that you have something to remind the presence of the other partner in your life.
5. shower each other with memorable gifts ( I LIKE THIS ^^)..


I find the tips quite good and true. hopefully I can make use of these tips~~~


Examples of memorable gifts:

Eighteen

hmm... Its been quite awhile since last post ( hehe)

These long period makes me think.. think a lot of stuff..
At the age of 18, suddenly have this shock of don't know what to do. Coz u're suddeny out of school after 13 years ( + 2 yrs kindergarden) n u need to decide on what to do..
Most of us, by 18 will probably leave home to further studies some where n some may still have the chance to remain at home ( lucky them ). But I realise that once u leave home, chances are you wont have much time at home anymore after that..

Like for me, after matrix, it'll b Uni which most probably I'll be stayin out too. After 4 years, its time to work. If you're lucky you may land a job nearby that you can stay at home, but if not? sayonara to your lovely home. Even if u stay at home, your long workin hour may not allow to stay long at home. Your comfy room may just be like another hotel where u sleep at night and the next day you will need to leave in the morning.

Few years later, you can hear the sound of marriage bell n for ladies, of coz u don stay at home anymore. You'd probably move to somewhere far if your spouse come from another state or somethin.

So, you see.. After 18, there's not much of time left for us to stay at home with our parents. This is when i realise that the time with our family is really wonderful and we should really treasure it. Spend as much time as you can with your love ones. When you're out n away, you'll realise that there's really no place like home. No food is better than your mom very own cooking.... T.T

Eighteen... freedom may be sweet, but sometimes you just wish to have someone to have someone to wake you up, cooks you food and just be around there....

Sweet memories

AJL is such an sweet part of my life that uptill now I will still think back, watching the scenes we had flashing thru my mind. It is really the best time of my life and I cant over the fact that it is over...
Because its too sweet, I sometimes wonder is it too good to be true ? DId such wonderful thing really happened in my life ? Or was it just a dream ? I can only reassure myself by looking at the picture and telling myself : "yes u were there. See,you are in the picture !"
It feels that AJL is such a wonderful dream that I wish I never have to wake up from this dream. I want this dream to go on forever.
But when I look at the picture of us together, the thought that we have all gone separate ways saddens me.We all begin with coming together from different place and of different background. Yet fate has its way of putting us together. But cruely, fate has now separate us all again.. Is there even a slightest chance of reliving AJL all over again ??
Life's like that, wonderful things that would leave a mark in your heart must always come to an end, but horrible things that you don wanna face will always come back and find you over and over again... Why is it so unfair ???
I guess life must go on no matter how i tend to look back with tears rolling down my cheeks. But how do i move on from a bed of rose to a garden of thorns ??

Gone were the days
of joy and laughter,
Gone were the days
with no worries,
Gone were the days
I look forward to waking up each day,
Gone were the days
I wish will never end
Gone were the days
I wish night never comes
Gone were the days
I wish time will stop
Gone were the days
Sunshine fills each and every days
Gone were the days
of AJL...........

First Love

Ice Kacang Puppy Love. Althought not very very nice, but I kinda like the story line. I like the part where Ah Niu says : first love is like eating ice kacang, the taste is very nice, but before you can enjoy it, it has already melt in your mouth. The saddest part of the show is the two of them didn't get to be together.Normally in a love-related movie, they always put happy ending. But not in this show...

However, as sad as i felt about the ending, I kinda do agree with it though. In the movie, Ah niu did not get to be together with his first love.In reality is about the same too. I mean, what are the chances of people being together with their first love ?

Usually first love is someone we'll remember the most and the heart break is the worst cause we thought that we'll be happily ever after. ( yea rite). But that if you get to be together. Most of the time, first love more of a one sided love where your love is unrequited.

I believe everyone have their fair share of first love and equally the same share of heart aches and sleepless nights. But 1 thing I've learn from broken hearts are, they make me a stronger person. I don bruise easily anymore and when I fall, i can stand up straight. When i love, i love someone truly.

So, don give up when your first love is not answered, there's always a second, third, fourth or..........^^

Birthdays

Its my very first blog and i decided to start it on my 18th birthday !!

I'm not sure if its just me, or everyone feels the same way. But every year, I always look forward to my birthday. As the weeks approaches, I get very eager to know how my birthday will be,will there be any surprises, any extraordinary celebrations or what special gifts i might receive. Its the joy of waiting and the anticipation that makes me look forward to it and cant wait for my birthday to arrive.

However, as the days come closer and closer to my birthday, my anticipation just lessens by the day. I will somehow realise, that there's actually nothing much special about my birthday. I mean it will be just another day in life that I'll be doing the same things. Its not like I dont have to eat or breathe on this day. Nor i can suddenly fly on my birthday. Its things like this that make me kinda not care bout my birthday. Just like yesterday, its just a day before my birthday, but I did not feel any anticipation at all. If not bcoz my friend ask me what would i be doin on my birthday, I actually forgotten that today is my birthday ! funny huh ??

Yet, it was at the struck of 12, that i realise how special it is to be the birthday girl. Coz, from that time, all birthday wishes will start pouring in. May it be a call or a simple sms, it really brightens up my day bcoz my friends and family took the time to wish me for my special day ! The more wishes i get, the more appreciated i feel. At least some one outs there remember my birthday !!

This year, my birthday celebration may not be very big, but I did receive a call that really brightens me up and make me feel so special. No elaboration on the call will be make . ( hehe). But this simple 1-minute call, actually make me cry tears of joy and it is the 1 wish that I will treasure the most.. Whoever make that call, thank you for making my birthday so special...